My Mom Was An Extreme Frugalist–Here’s What I Learned From Her

I grew up on Long Island (so, in the NYC metro area). I was one of nine children. My parents were a professor (i.e., not paid great) and a stay-at-home mom. So we didn’t have a lot of money. My mom was the spender of money in our house. She handled our small income with what I now know was extreme frugality. Not even $1 per day For instance, in … Read more

How Not Being Able To Pay Our Taxes Changed Everything

Three especially important things happened to our family last year: Our fourth child was born. We went broke. We started our debt-free/FI journey. It was a big year. 2017, A Year of Reckoning In April 2017, Señor Firelit and I sat down with our accountant to do our 2016 taxes. At the end of the session, we realized this: come tax day, we would owe $23,000. To our names, we … Read more